Which dildo is right for me?

Choosing a dildo for the first time can be a little confusing and knowing which dildos will

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How to use a Rabbit Vibrator With Your Partner

The Rabbit vibrator has long been a first choice for women when looking for a sex toy but we are often asked how it can be taken from the bedside drawer a

We are asked many times how you can use your rabbit vibrator with your partner. Some women may have only tried the rabbit vibe and consider it so good as a masturbation aid that a logical step would be to bring some of that pleasure to share between you. Another scenario is to introduce an inclusive element to sex toy play, if your partner knows th…

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How long will my vibrator last?

The golden question, ‘How long will my vibrator last’. When it comes to sex toys I think that quality applies more so than many other types of electronic goods. The dildo is usually fine when it comes to longevity, yes a silicone dildo will last longer than a jelly one but on the whole you will get lots of enjoyment from it before parts fall off! The question is more pertinent when it comes to vibrators as any battery operated toy will be more likely to breakdown. It is a rule of thumb that a quality vibrator will last longer than a cheaper one but saying that I have had a lady finger vibe for 10 years which cost me £3  and it works first time every time (batteries permitting!). Designer sex toys are more likely to last with vibrators made with quality motors and superior materials. Sex toy manufacturers with luxury brands are also more likely to offer a guarantee in the sale such as Lelo and Funfactory. Japanese models such as Vibe Therapy will probably last longer than Chinese mass produced vibrators so if you feel you may become attached to your toy then spend as much as you can afford!

Make your Valentines Go With a Swing

Seduction, Sex, Sensual treats, sex toys, Sushi or Slobbing out on the sofa, whatever Valentines means to you we have some tips to make the evening go wit

Whether you are planning a hot and horny session of unadulterated sexual exploration or preparing a sensual love nest for you both to re-discover your most pleasurable personal parts we have devised a list of favoured tips to incorporate into your Valentines celebration - Enjoy! Plan your Seduction- Valentines calls for a little extra effort and it only takes a small amount of planning f…

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Restraining Orders

Before you begin any restraining play follow these golden rules

1. Never tie anyone so tightly so that they can’t move at all and use a knot that can be quickly released.

2. Never tie a bondage accessory around the neck this can lead to nasty accidents

3. Set yourself a time limit when beginning bondage play making sure your partner is reasonably comfortable with whats going on!

4. When we play during restraint and bondage fantasy it is the rare occasion when no can mean yes - “No master don’t whip me so hard”. You need to choose a safe word between you when beginning with bondage that can be distinguished by you both as a time to stop.

Female Orgasm Facts

Whether elusive or earth shaking we look at the female orgasm and ways to improve it

It is a fact that more women than men report difficulties in achieving orgasm. It is stated that about 40% of men will experience some problems with climax during their sexual lifetime, however men tend to orgasm easier through both masturbation and sex which means that us girls need to be aware of the female orgasm facts.So many facts and figures are tossed about in the flotsam of femal…

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Monkey Spanker Review

Kat & her partner review the Monkey Spanker Male Masturbator

The, cheekily named, Monkey Spanker is a male masturbator but, unlike sex toys with a tube design, this is more like a paddle i…

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Sex & Health

Your interest in sex and sex toys is directly related to your health.  Some areas may be subtle and others will have a direct impact on your libido and sexual interest. How sexy you feel, how motivated you are to try out that new vibrator and how often you feel like sex with your partner are all related to your overall health.

On an obvious level a disease or medical problem will effect how able or willing you are to have sex or indulge in self pleasure. If you have had a heart attack you may be worried about the physical effects of sex or if you are experiencing pain the pursuit of pleasure seems a long way away. Your mood will be effected by your physical well being and grabbing a sex toy when you are experiencing physical discomfort is not easy. Often mental issues can also effect your arousal and sexual interest. Loss of libido is a common side effect to anti depressants and long term use often sees an individual suffering in the sex stakes.

The endless round of colds and flu make you feel less than sexy and a low self image from a lack of body care will effect how you will feel about yourself as a sexual creature. Improving your health will improve your sex life. Losing weight, drinking moderately and regularly exercising will help to raise libido and better your orgasms. The motivation to spend time pleasuring yourself and your partner will increase and the way you feel about yourself as a sexual creature will improve. Making lifestyle choices to reduce stress will promote your sexual energy and leave quality time for intimate play.