- Anal Stimulation can be pleasurable
Lots of couples enjoy anal stimulation because it feels nice, its as simple as that. The external area has lots of nerve endings to stimulate and massage feels great around the anus. Stroking, spanking and slapping the buttocks raises arousal and even licking the anal area feels sensual and erotic. Many people enjoy the feeling of anal sex toys, anal beads and probes offer fantastic stimulation and inserting a butt plug during sex can enhance penetrative sex and climax. The skin between the vagina and anus is quite thin so it s possible to reach the g spot from the anal passage and anal sex whilst using vibrators or dildos contributes an amazing feeling of fullness.
There can be strong taboo relating to anal pleasure with many myths that prove unfounded when subjected to closer scrutiny. As an anal guide here are some answers to common misconceptions regarding anal stimulation:
Anal Sex will contribute to lost bowel control
Actually no sensible anal penetration contributes to good anal health. Clenching your sphincter can lead to hemorrhoids whereas the stretching and relaxing required for anal penetration actually improves the tone of anal muscles. Anal awareness expands your sexual experience and broadens your orgasmic experience.
Anal sex is messy
The anus actually comprises of two sphincters which work in tandem. The faeces travel only to the point of the rectum whereby we control the sphincter muscles according to whether we are able to use a loo. The passage in which sex toys or partners penises travel is the empty part of the rectum and they make no contact with fecal matter. If you are concerned about traces inside the empty part of your anal passage then enjoy a warm shower prior to sex or use an anal douche with warm water.
Anal sex hurts
Anal sex does not have to hurt if a few guidelines are followed. Make sure you are relaxed and take it slow and steady. Use lots of sex lubricant and a lube specially formulated for anal sex will offer greater viscosity. Slowly insert your sex toy or penis and stop, allowing the muscles to relax around the shaft before attempting further penetration. Use a clitoral vibrator or dildo in conjunction for relaxation and contribution to the overall stimulating experience.
There are a few golden rules when it comes to anal stimulation:
Do not penetrate the anus and then the vagina, it may be the favourite of porn films but the vagina does not appreciate the bacteria from the back passage, either use a condom or layer your sex toy with condoms peeling one away for each area.
Unlike the vagina, the anus does not have a small opening into the body, therefore sex toys can travel all the way up into the digestive system. Ensure that sex toys have a means of retrieval and that butt plugs have a flared base.
Use anal lube for maximum comfort as the anal passage produces no natural lubrication of its own.
The walls of the anus are more delicate than the vagina so make sure that you are gentle and careful when penetrating whether during sex or when using adult toys.