Adult Vibes

Restraining Orders

Before you begin any restraining play follow these golden rules

1. Never tie anyone so tightly so that they can’t move at all and use a knot that can be quickly released.

2. Never tie a bondage accessory around the neck this can lead to nasty accidents

3. Set yourself a time limit when beginning bondage play making sure your partner is reasonably comfortable with whats going on!

4. When we play during restraint and bondage fantasy it is the rare occasion when no can mean yes - “No master don’t whip me so hard”. You need to choose a safe word between you when beginning with bondage that can be distinguished by you both as a time to stop.

Female Orgasm Facts

Whether elusive or earth shaking we look at the female orgasm and ways to improve it

It is a fact that more women than men report difficulties in achieving orgasm. It is stated that about 40% of men will experience some problems with climax during their sexual lifetime, however men tend to orgasm easier through both masturbation and sex which means that us girls need to be aware of the female orgasm facts.So many facts and figures are tossed about in the flotsam of femal…

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Monkey Spanker Review

Kat & her partner review the Monkey Spanker Male Masturbator

The, cheekily named, Monkey Spanker is a male masturbator but, unlike sex toys with a tube design, this is more like a paddle i…

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Sex & Health

Your interest in sex and sex toys is directly related to your health.  Some areas may be subtle and others will have a direct impact on your libido and sexual interest. How sexy you feel, how motivated you are to try out that new vibrator and how often you feel like sex with your partner are all related to your overall health.

On an obvious level a disease or medical problem will effect how able or willing you are to have sex or indulge in self pleasure. If you have had a heart attack you may be worried about the physical effects of sex or if you are experiencing pain the pursuit of pleasure seems a long way away. Your mood will be effected by your physical well being and grabbing a sex toy when you are experiencing physical discomfort is not easy. Often mental issues can also effect your arousal and sexual interest. Loss of libido is a common side effect to anti depressants and long term use often sees an individual suffering in the sex stakes.

The endless round of colds and flu make you feel less than sexy and a low self image from a lack of body care will effect how you will feel about yourself as a sexual creature. Improving your health will improve your sex life. Losing weight, drinking moderately and regularly exercising will help to raise libido and better your orgasms. The motivation to spend time pleasuring yourself and your partner will increase and the way you feel about yourself as a sexual creature will improve. Making lifestyle choices to reduce stress will promote your sexual energy and leave quality time for intimate play.

The sexual stages

We look at the different stages of sexual desire and arousal with ways to improve your enjoyment at each stage

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